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If you’re floundering in the bedroom and your girlfriend is
moaning for all the wrong reasons, these tips will point you in
the right direction.

By Jack Crow http://www.sexy-american-singles.com

Gentlemen! If you want to get your girl moaning for real instead
of faking it, you’re going to have to put a bit of work in.
Firstly, a male can achieve orgasm within 2 – 3 minutes when
stimulated by another partner. Where as a female can take up to
15 minutes to climax.

If you know for a fact that you can’t keep going for that long
by pure intercourse alone (and lets face it, if you’re doing
that, you’re having sex, not making love) then you are going to
have to stimulate her body with foreplay instead.

Now before you panic and freak out, all of this can be done with
your tongue and hands. I guarantee you will become a better
lover in the bedroom AND you really will give her orgasm after
orgasm.

The top 5 female erogenous zones

The neck

Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps
one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this
area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time
massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up
and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily
in a very short period of time.

The ear lobes

Sucking ear lobes isn’t for everyone. Some girls get the tickles
when you do it but others simply adore it. While you’re there
you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact
is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you’re fed
up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with
your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.

The nipples

On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples
become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue.
Don’t forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss
down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of
them. If she hasn’t grabbed your head by this stage and held it
into her bosom, something’s badly wrong.

The belly button

Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area
you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area
with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will
vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her
G spot.

The G Spot

Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can
be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has
already found her G spot and let her point you in the right
direction.

As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof
of the vagina (that’s the side closest to her stomach.). It’s
about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found
about 4 inches in.

Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with
your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose
control of her limbs. Don’t be surprised if you get kneed in the
face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be
noted that not all females have a G spot, so don’t be alarmed if
you both can’t find it. As you have seen there are plenty of
other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art
of love making in order to help her climax.

Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging
for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation
is the key to find out what works and what doesn’t as everyone
is not the same.

As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of
her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time
to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far
above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it
tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)

I hope this article helps your love life get back on track and
that you become better and more confident at making love and not
just having sex. Above all else, if you want to become a better
lover, ask your partner what they like and what they want you to
do to them. Not only will you help them get their rocks off
quicker, you’ll also show that you are thinking about their
needs and they in turn will think about yours. This will create
a much better experience than if both parties are concentrating
on what each can get out of the experience in a very selfish way.

Until next time.

Jack Crow is a freelance writer and part time webmaster. When
he’s not building web sites he’s writing about relationship
problems and checking out new dating sites that appear on the
net. To like to read some of his other articles on men and
women, visit his site at http://www.sexy-american-singles.com

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