Earings for Girls

Here are some tips for getting a girl to want you, whether you are in a relationship or simply in the dating stage.

Hit the phone as often as you can. There is no substitute for showing affections to your girl even on a daily basis. That constant SMS or phone call makes every girl feel secure about the relationship. Your girl is built to receive affection, and every sweet message that you send, whether it’s a visual message of flowers or a well-wrought poetry, assures her that the relationship is going smoothly. Real men care for their women.

Endure that cheesy movie. Yes, that romantic movie your girlfriend has been eyeing on screams of too much cheese. Yes we know, corny moments in movies generally make guys cringe. But then again, your woman is too crazy about that movie to really care about your idiosyncrasy.

Why don’t you go out with her? Being there even if those moments make you puke means more to her than you can imagine. It only shows you are serious about your relationship. Getting a girl to want you involves hanging out with her more than usual. Don’t stutter when she wants to lock arms with you to that fashion show. Hesitate a good deal, and she might think you’re just not into her.

Lend me your ears. Listen. Listen. LISTEN! Nothing makes a girl respect you more than listening to her. Let’s face it. Women generally are gifted with speech, and have that tireless tendency to talk their way out of predicaments and problems. Needless to say, they passed B.S. in Communicative Gibber a long time ago. They don’t talk to solve problems, they talk to pour out their problems; that’s it. They need someone to listen to, to be able to express and share without being criticized or being offered advice. Women basically want a partner who makes a good sounding board for their insistent talk.

Getting a girl to want you is easy once you develop that habit of listening. Yes, it’s some sort of therapy for them. Being more relational than men, they commonly run into a variety of emotional upheavals with their officemates, family, colleagues, classmates, and that occasional, pesky salesman. They are more affected emotionally, and when feelings get spent, a slap in your face or a deep, tearful hurt is probably a careless word away.

So, when you are at home, don’t head to the fridge and grab yourself some beer, or lunge at your favorite couch. After all she’s been through during work, group projects, or chasing after five kids (gee, that’s tough), she will really appreciate it if you’d sit down with her and let her start blabbing away. They really don’t need advice. Really. Be a man and sit through the ordeal. If you love her, that is.