Sep
02
2009
Okay So Last Night He Gave Me Earings I Dont Like Him What Should I Do?
Posted by Blogmaster in Earings, tags: Don't, Earings, Gave, Last, Like, Night, Okay, Shouldi like him but i don’t know if i want to go out when he gave the earings to me i was just like frozen it was embarising my friend was yelling at me to talk to him and read my text message(he sent me one saying i have somthing for you. at the end of the dance, he jut said here and handed them to me. I felt like a girl dog(if u know what i mean)
Do you think i should still go out with him or dump him?
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“That is very sweet of you, and they’re lovely….” (because clearly he thought they were which is why he picked them out; doesn’t mean you’re lying, since you didn’t say ‘I think’ they’re lovely).
“I can’t accept, though, because it would be under false pretenses and I’d be leading you on. I’m sorry I didn’t say anything sooner, I just didn’t want you to feel bad and I care about your feelings. It’s not fair to you for me to not be honest about my feelings.”
(You’re only a ‘dog’ if you act like one. Act like a young lady with grace and respect. You can only do that by kindly saying the truth. Anything else is dog-like and downright dishonest).
that is uncomfortable especially when you are unsure if you want that kind of relationship to begin with than he gives you something as a gift and you really do not know how to gracefully unaccept the gift without hurting his feelings and still be friends. hmmmm this one sucks………. yep…how uncomfortable that would be. to still go out would be worse for both of you to break it off as you wanted to begin with before he handed you the gift is another story so….just grin and bear it and tell yourself it has to be done now for the grace of everyone involved and break it off. tell him you loved the earrings but you are unable to accept them. (its not you, it’s me ) anyways…. i would not want to be your earlobes right now.!!! (smile) good luck!!!
Give the ear-rings back to him. Do as you want, which ever you choose would be okay..go out with him if you want, or dump him if you think that’s truthfully what you want. You are the only one that can make your own decisions in life.
This is the first time I think, that I’ve found someone with the same name as me on here….
But yeah, when you don’t want something, give them back.
Uhm, hun… Don’t break up with him OVER EARINGS!
If you like him then keep being his girlfriend. Don’t break up with him over something so little. I mean it is the thought that counts. He gave you those earings because he likes you, duh. Instead of being like “ew these earings are ugly” you SHOULD be like “awww, he gave me earings, that is so sweet”
DUHH. Hope i helped xx
if you don’t like someone then no,you should not “go out”with them.if someone gives you a gift,just because,then that’s all it should qualify for,not an obligation.just be friends if that is where the cards lay,if he gets upset and what-not,that is not your fault,nor does it make you “a girl dog”
Hi,
You shouldn’t have accepted the gift in the first place.
So return them to him and tell him that your feelings about him are just to be friends no more then that and for that reason that you can’t accept his gift.
You should not go out with someone you don’t really like.
-R.
okay, well my ex boyfriend gave me a necklace .. i didn’t like it at all to be honest it just looked like a peice of bread haha. but eventually i started to wear it and found out that i didn’t care what it looked like because he gave it to me, i was on his mind when he saw it i even still sometimes wear it.
I read a book (INVITATION ONLY by Kate Brian) and this guy she didn’t like gave her diamond earrings. She tried to give them back but her friends were like “take them! don’t be rude!” So she took them & he expected her to wear them everyday. I’d go out once so it seems that your not using him. Maybe you’d like him… maybe not. ;]
you shouldn’t wear those earrings because wearing them will encourage him….first think whether you can afford going out with him…it shouldn’t stop you from doing anything you like…is he worth you?..if you like him go for it but don’t use him or hurt him in any way..ok? The rest is up to you! Good Luck!
well he seems like a really nice guy maybe just try to go out with him but if it turns out you are not attractive to him at all when it gets to the point you dont even wanna hold his hand or what ever then dump him!!! cuz that wouldnt be right so i hope tihs kinda helped:)
If you don’t see him that way, give him BACK the earrings and politely tell him you don’t see him that way. Yes, it hurts. But which is going to hurt more? You being honest with yourself and him? Or you lying and then doing something stupid later and really hurt him?
Tell him that you like him, but you’re not sure if dating it what you two should do. Keeping with that because the earrings are a beautiful gift, you think he should hold onto them until he has a beautiful girlfriend who deserves them.
So he bought you earrings that you don’t like. Is that really grounds for not going out with him? You must be really young because relationships are worth a lot more than earrings. You’ll learn that later down the road.
wait im confused
you don’t like him?
or you don’t like the earings?
i think you need a comma somewhere in there because i think everybody else is confused too……
Leaving him because of bad earrings? Its the thought that matters, if you act like this you’ll never be able to keep any relationship throughout your entire life.
First off sort your life out
Second make your mind up
Third Get him to give you Da Flamin Amazon !
I’m sure he didn’t mean anything bad, his intents are quite innocent….
Give them back to him
dumb him he made u feel like a girl dog